How to solve things easy, Quick and Wise way?

I was a guy who had a 9-5 day Job although sometimes, I had to work over weekends, Holidays, Late night from home or from the picnic spot (no, litterally, I had to carry laptop in my car boot always) and that sometimes was on average 2-3 times a week only. I have a family to feed and school going kids whom I need to get good education and nourishment. My parents have given all they had for me and its time for me to do all they want to roam to the sacred placed and holy rivers. And do not forget Home Loan EMI car maintenance if not the more but the least. Sounds Familiar??? Still I'm in Business for two years after serving 13 years IT industry where I started small ( a computer operator) and turned to be so called "big" guy ( a manager). At the same time when my job gave me everything and I felt stability, I could think of future based on the regular transfer that used to happen in my salary account on last day of the month., Then what was the reason that I'm ...